I love you, but I hate your overeating" doesn’t help a marriage. It's not helpful because hatred is a powerful emotion (a posture, really) that is not easy to wield or maintain carefully. Hatred is more a bludgeon than a scalpel. Our ability to distinguish sin from sinner, especially in others, is so limited, so vulnerable to our own unexamined subjectivity. Ken Wilson
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  1. Hatred would have been easier. With hatred, I would have known what to do. Hatred is clear, metallic, one-handed, unwavering; unlike love. - Margaret Atwood

  2. Before you hate something you should try to understand it. - Martha Grimes

  3. Hatred is a form of faith, distilled by passion to remove all rationality. - L.E. Modesitt Jr.

  4. Let no man pull you so low as to hate him. - Anonymous

  5. Think about what it would mean to fight, " he said. "Say we barricade ourselves here in the hotel and refuse to leave. They come at us with their Weapon, whatever it is. Some of us are hurt, some die. <span style="margin:15px; display:block"></span>We go out... - Jeanne DuPrau

More Quotes By Ken Wilson
  1. In the deepest, most central place of our being, we don't want to cross God and our not wanting to is the beginning of wisdom.

  2. The conscience is a communal organ–a way of knowing that we do with others formed always in reference to others.

  3. I love you, but I hate your overeating" doesn’t help a marriage. It's not helpful because hatred is a powerful emotion (a posture, really) that is not easy to wield or maintain carefully. Hatred is more a bludgeon than a scalpel. Our ability to distinguish...

  4. Virtually every church tradition, by theology, interpretive strategies, or pastoral practice, makes accommodations for divorced people who seek to remarry. These accommodations permit divorced people to enter unions that are outside the rule laid down in the Bible. But we can't have it both ways....

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